Build an army

We've talked about the power of partnerships before (see Make a mighty fist), but I wanted to remind you of their power. The lesson. Alone you can do a little, with many you can do a lot. So, build an army by finding others with similary interests (see my rant on fellowshipping) and inviting them to your party. Not a literal party, but invite them to be a part of your project.

Take a walk in my size 5

Lately I am amazed at human insensitivity. It is like people have no compassion.  They don't understand the value of empathy.  They wouldn't be caught dead sympathizing with anyone because nothing ever happens to them; and if it does, it's nobody's business but their own.

Man's conscience disconnection from man has serious implications for all (a rant for another blog and another time).  It also presents an learning opportunity for PR professionals.

A large part of our job as PR pros is to craft messages that will lead others to action.  How can you do that without understanding the other person's position? It's pretty hard.

The lesson.  Take time to walk in your intended audiences' shoes.  Learn as much as you can about the audience.  What do they like? What do they dislike? How they feel about your client? Your cause? Your competition?  Your communication success depends on your ability to be vulnerable, open to receive that they are giving, your ability to empathize, sympathize and to connect with your audience (s) on a personal level.

Also see:

Human Conversation

Creating a connection

Stop Frontin' and Get Real

 

 

Reality is much better than the imagination

I am a reality TV junkie.  My personal favorites are the shows that allow me to peek inside celebrities lives.  Every time a new celebrity gets a reality show I watch (current favorites are Fantasia for Real and Let's Talk About Pep). I watch because I, like many others, enjoy knowing I share common traits with celebrities.  Reality shows help me see what Lauryn Hill said years ago, "... reality is good. It means that everybody can exhale and let your belly out ….that is the blessing [to be able to] go around and say, 'oh you got one too.' And be free."

I dig that.

I like knowing that there are other women struggling with self-esteem issues. That I am not the only one with crazy family members or the only person trying to find balance and peace in this world.

I know I am not alone.  The ratings and tweets let me know others enjoy reality just like me. People want to see reality, not imagination.  They want to know that they aren't the only people going through the struggle.  Some part of everyone wants to know that their experiences are shared and in some crazy way watching reality television lets you know you are living in reality; you are not an outcast.

The lesson. Operate in reality.  Encourage your clients to open themselves up by:

  • Showing their audience them at their best
  • Showing their audience them at their worst
  • Showing their audience how to be true to self (R&B superstar Monica does this well. Check out this 2003 interview (below) on 20/20. In her words: "...Accept me for who I am ..."