An Open Letter To My Younger Self

Life for me ain’t been no crystal stair.

It’s had tacks in it,

And splinters,

And boards torn up,

And places with no carpet on the floor—

Bare.

~ Langston Hughes, Mother to Son

Growing up, Langston Hughes’ poem - “Mother to Son” - was one of my favorites. I suppose I understood his mother's pain even before I was old enough to have the experiences to match the pain.

Life didn’t disappoint me by allowing me to eventually rack up the experiences to match.

In this heartfelt video, I share how I confronted the painful past to shed light on the profound impact of emotional neglect, sexual abuse, and the overwhelming sense of unworthiness. I weave together a story of growth, self-discovery, and the transformative power of breaking free from the shadows of the past.

With honesty and vulnerability, I explore how these traumas shaped my life.

SN: I talk about how these experiences impacted my life in my master class. Use the form on the homepage to register for this class.

By sharing these personal experiences and hard-earned wisdom, I wish you hope, resilience, and a path toward healing.